Mrindigo wrote:
I wouldn't write to an incarcerated women. Typically people end up in jail because they've lead a hard life at some point. By the sound of it, this man interested in love doesn't exactly live comfortably. That suits some people. Others just want more. Some will break laws, hearts, and bones to get what they want. Not everyone in jail is ruthless, but they aren't exactly there for no reason most of the time. I don't think it's really a good idea on his part.
I don't know how large the community is that he lives in. He could try getting involved more in local social events, things he's interested in. He'd be more likely to find a compatible partner there, and not have to worry about waking up duct taped to the bed, his valuables missing, and the truck gone.
The guy is in his early fifties,and used to be a bit of a player with the ladies around town,and he has had sexual escapades with many local girls,and lived with a few.
The girl he's with now in my opinion is just a meal ticket to him.
When he was younger he could pick up the wild women after leaving the country western bars,but it's a younger scene now,and if your a older dude looking for a woman you need money, and they expect a sugar daddy, not a broke old man.
What goes on in anybody head,who knows,but I think he is trying to keep the young wild side live style going,and wants younger good looking women, who may have low self esteem and are desperate,it's the classic predatory way for a dude of this type.
imo