cantata wrote:
dubmeup wrote:
Sorry cant, Bipolar was mentioned and I chipped in that I would like the connection severed. So I um have to put my hands up to my part in the derail

No. You were right, dubs. Bi-polar was mentioned and you chipped in....
But WHY was Bi-polar mentioned in a thread about psi-vampirism? What the fek has Bi-polar got to do with sucking the Life Force of others?
I want the "connection" severed too - because there isn't one.

Honestly, relax..... It wasn't like this thread got derailed, and TBH emotional vampires were introduced into a thread about picking up on other people's vibes..... Like I said earlier, my sister suffers from clinical depression, and she is an emotional vampire -- one of the games she likes to play is convincing herself that everyone suffers from the same thing she does, and will go so far as to try to convince
them.
I don't know that I'm an empath; I have empathy for other people, but when I pick up on vibrations from other people, I don't carry that as a weight or anything, it stays with them. I don't absorb their negativity, I just feel it. I don't find it magnetic, I find it somewhat repellant. It's
awkward. If being an empath means being a target for other people's excessive neediness and then also a target for manipulation because of that, it's not me. Being bombarded in a public place by people's frustration and negativity is not wounding, it just makes me uncomfortable.
I find it surprising that so many on here suffer from a form of depression or have been diagnosed as such. I find it interesting that some of these same people are also susceptible to picking up on vibrations. I can see how someone who really is bipolar, or depressed, could be an easy mark for manipulation by an emo vampire or a narcissist. Absolutely.
TBH, I think I appear to be a mark for manipulation; I occasionally have some odd characters who seem to pick up on something they sense I am, and attempt to initiate something with me.... but alas, their damn vibrations give them away every time.