The title sounds serious but to me I don't think this is a really life changing event,some of you may,here's the story.
And completely true actual events and witnessed by me firsthand.

My buddy had this girlfriend,they were always together,went places,and seemed to be in a complete relationship,meaning everything you would think would encompass one,basically also sex is what I mean.But they had some really serious verbal fights,seriously loud and intense,well here recently they broke up.

And you know what I found out,he wouldn't have sex with her because of his religious belief that a man should be legally married before having sex in a relationship,and the woman was hot,and hot for him and completely obsessed with him.

Question is do you think my buddy is a dumb ass or what?Or was he a good man in his belief,or nuts

Oh and she is with another guy now,so it's over and his opportunity is lost forever

Smite

Who is asking, you? your sister? or your uncle?

dantesrevival wrote:
Me dude,I read that thread,sorry the way she acted,I give them the run of my place when they stay,she will not be on my account name anymore,my uncle was looking for work around here and stayed also and I let him answer a post or two when we looked online and showed him things,but he is a really kind soul and didn't cause any mess

My apologies again for her she is a little wild

neither was wrong i guess. he believes 1 thing, and she another. its good for him he is confident in his faith to repel such a succubus lol. cest la vie.

Rick wrote:
Ok accepted, forget about it

i think your mate sounds like an okay guy.......

To many men just jump into bed with girls

I think it's up to the guy, he has his beliefs and it's not like he's doing anything terrible or shocking. If he has the courage of his convictions who am I to judge?

dawnbreak wrote:
They went together for a long time,she seemed a little high strung but very nice and respectful,I found this out very recently that she told someone he wouldn't have sex,I am just thinking there's something else to it than just his belief, and I am not going to face to face ask him because it may upset him that people are talking behind his back about personal stuff and his breakup.

Do you think there was more to it also? A females opinion would be good on this

Well, one should not let religious beliefs get in the way of a good roll in the hay If you meet someone, and you get on and you're horny for each other, dive into the sack and have a good fucking time
What if you get married then find out the sex doesn't work? You're fucked (badly)

dawnbreak wrote:
This is a good point actually. But I still believe no sex before marriage is silly...I believe marriage is a bit silly as well tbh

It's entirely their concern how they conduct their lives.

Rick wrote:

well it is possible he prefers men,, but why are you concerned about your mates sex lilfe?

dawnbreak wrote:
Cause you don't find women that obsessed with you very often,and he blew it,and he may be on my dumb ass list now but still my friend,plus she was really hot looking,fiery and energetic.

He fucked up.

A fiery and energetic woman is a recipie for good times.

errm that really doesn't make sense? Were you shagging her or your mate?

feather wrote:
Yes it is but people love to talk,and they were such a known couple it was a shock they split up,I figure she gave him a ultimatum to get with the program or she will find someone who will,and they were hitting on her.

It's just a fun subject, that's all I won't think any less of him or tease him about it

dawnbreak wrote:
I assume your asking me and no I never had any thing with her at all except brief hello and how ya doing type thing,he lives close enough to me I could hear them fighting and yelling

LesleyPumpshaft wrote:
But damn how could he pass on that?

Rick wrote:
Pure sexual frustration...he should have put his beliefs to one side and just went for it. Although having said that, if he has strong beliefs and convictions then he should stick to them, if he wants to remain true to what he has chosen to believe.
Hopefully he'll meet the right woman one day and it will all work out