I haven't, unfortunately, got time to make a long contribution to this discussion, but I just wanted people to consider the following.
Imagine someone signs up, and posts child porn on the site as their first post. Or even worse does multiple posts of this nature. Obviously that needs to be deleted immediately and the person involve needs to be banned immediately.
It's not possible or practical to have a 48 hour discussion every time someone is a bit out of line. Because sometimes they may be way out of line and need to be dealt with quickly. That's why I made this post:
sanctumzone.co.uk/forum/The-Community-Ch...t=20&start=100#64143
...because I am an idealist, but I think there needs to be a little more give and take, particularly in this medium where anyone can come here and just start posting anything, and ultimately one person is legally responsible for this (and probably the person who posted it). I fully believe in community moderation, but sometimes moderators will have to make spontaneous decisions, and act in a way that they think is appropriate with the ethos of the site, without consulting other people first. I actually felt that this was already happening, but obviously there have been some shenanigans to which I'm not privy.
All I'm trying to point out is I don't believe you can have an ideal situation with an Internet forum. You either have total chaos, or a moderated forum in which the moderators try to behave as ethically and transparently as possible.
Actually, unlike many other people here, my reason for leaving the DIF was not related to racism, nor moderation, the primary reason was that it had outlived its usefulness, and nothing positive was coming of it whatsoever. I think, actually, something positive has come of this site being set up in this respect, because they've banned tonnes of people over there who were trolling the site, and I'm sure the atmosphere has improved immeasurably.
But I think our primary focus here ought to be doing something positive, not on trying to create the perfect community, because the latter will be impossible. By all means try to build upon the good community that already exists and try to enhance it. But I think we need to be practical and realistic about how the site and moderation operates in real time.