psketti wrote:
Abs needed some timeout.

That ain't a half bad idea...for me at least.
All this to'ing and fro'ing is giving me a right royal headache.
Yesterday, it appeared to me a lot of headway was made, all in a positive direction.
I have been up since 5am, having gone to bed after midnight, and whilst I was at work, I was mulling over a few more ideas and stuff. I came back on here only to find that there are no new peeps putting their 2 cents in, and the same things seem to be discussed around and around until I for one am disappearing up my own arsehole!
I really, really don't want to vent about what has happened here....ie at the admin team, because when I vent, I leave/quit.
I STILL believe in the original ethos and objectives set out, but within all of that there has to be give and take, not concensus, you win some, you lose some,.....that is community......in one word RESPECT. Sometimes the answer is clear cut, othertimes it is not. I am hesitant to suggest that in the good old fashioned debating way...we have a proposer for and against with a seconded and third...end of debate...the rest of us vote on arguments presented.
I am also mindful, that with the same people posting on the various threads here to do with the predicament we find ourselves in, (myself included), that it is off putting to what is by all accounts the majority of the rest of the members here.
Move this to rant...if there is anybody here who has that switch, because having read it back to myself I have given myself one of these

and told myself to

and all due respect to everyone here who are trying to sort this unecessary debacle out (just my view)
Jane