I have a confession to make...
I too very quickly grew tired of the hate over there, and made a big deal about quitting and publicly asking for my account to be closed/inactivated. This in itself was an interesting experience, as members whom I had thought I got on quite well with, became rather 'bitchy' and judgemental about my asking for my account to be inactivated. It was certainly an eye-opener re some members, anyway.
I went away for a few weeks and thought about things, and more or less decided that a far better way to go would be to do my bit to combat said posts, as dubs has touched upon.
And so, I turned myself into a bit of a 'caricature'. I happened to have an old avi lying about so decided to put it to use and created a new account. I did so because I had made a bit of a fuss about leaving before and my intentions were purely to disrupt those types of threads as much as I could, so I had thought it really wouldn't matter what I 'looked' like.
The avi happened to be of a woman, and so when creating my account, I chose a name that may have indicated I was actually a woman, to go along with it. In retrospect, I shouldn't have done this, as I ended up feeling like a bit of a fraud, and like I was actually deceiving those people I had gone there to support.
If I did so, I can assure you it was not my intention and I soon left again when I realised I could no longer pretend to the people I was actually growing to respect and care about.
Anyway, that was my second incarnation there and I was Madame Follette. As I said, my intentions had been 'good' but I just felt guilty when I realised how many folks there were taking me on face value. I was thought to be 'Ragnarok' in disguise for a while, which I took as a compliment, but I am not and never have been the legend that is.
I chose 'Madame Follette', a literal translation of Miss Dotty, purely because of the avi I had at the time (see below). I must clarify that I have no wish to be a woman or deceive people into thinking that I am one. I am quite happy with my junk just as it is, and this has nothing to do with split peronalities or cross-dressing (though I do enjoy a good frock every now and then).
I don't do well 'deceiving' and the whole point of being back there was to try and achieve some positive change. I apologise to anyone who didn't already know this and I hope we can continue our friendships over here. I don't make a habit of pretending to be something I'm not, I just thought it was a good idea at the time and possibly a way to diffuse some of the hate stuff going on over there.
For a while, I watched dubs and others and saw that the work they were doing was good, but ultimately futile, as has been stated, because those types of threads appear to be exactly what admin over there are looking to encourage, for whatever reason. I am very much of the opinion however, that people need to see this stuff for themselves.
I appreciate that money is involved here and that some folks may end up paying for books and other things before they come to the realisations that we all have. Hopefully, this very site may set some inquisitive minds to thinking a bit deeper about things, so to carry on posting here is a positive step in the right direction, imo.
I agree with all the sentiments expressed so far in this thread and I am very glad to be a part of this new site. It's also a relief to not have to don that wig and uncomfortable shoes everytime I want to post.
MF says "hi", by the by.